In his excellent book Raising Boys, Steve Biddulph discusses how boys can be nurtured into becoming open-hearted, kind and strong men.
In stark contrast, studies of abandoned children adopted from South American and eastern European countries demonstrate how attachment disorder can lead to sociopathy, and sociopathy to violence.
Society relies on three levels of protection against harm. Level one is a person’s own conscience; level two is the family to keep its members in check; and level three is the police.
Nurturing the conscience starts in infancy. Here, childhood connection is vital.
For a free society to prosper, people have to be able to control themselves. Teaching self-control starts with the family. The family cultivates within a child the right way to view life and the world around us.
By any measure, studies show that boys raised by intact families – married mother and father, do better than any other form of family arrangement.
It is a tragedy that more than 3,000 Australians take their lives each year. More young men take their own lives than are killed in road accidents. Boys raised in father-absent environments are five times more likely to commit suicide, ten times more likely to abuse drugs, fourteen times more likely to commit rape, and twenty times more likely to end up in a correctional facility. They are like ships without a rudder. Fatherless households are a dreadful problem. As are divorce, domestic violence, loneliness and addiction to alcohol, gambling, drugs and pornography.
Part of the current turmoil regarding the treatment of women lies in the breakdown of the family.
It follows that reducing the incidence of family breakdown will lead to a reduction in violence against women.
Columnist Paul Kelly says conservatives like the Prime Minister need to show they have an effective voice on justice for women.
‘Marriage is good for society’ is a conservative message. Government policy could start by encouraging couples to marry, not discourage them with things like inequitable tax rates.
Society’s Plan A is the family. Plan B, the police, is a poor substitute. More focus on Plan A please.
Next week, Raising Girls.
It’s been said England invented bureaucracy and India perfected it. We can now add ‘… and Australia deified it’.
The three words most commonly used to describe Texas are ‘hot as hell!’
As everyone knows, the government has borrowed a lot of money to stimulate the economy in order to recover from its COVID-19 control measures. Gross debt is expected to exceed a trillion dollars this financial year. Getting the budget back under control is vital if workers are to avoid paying exorbitant taxes for generations.
“The poorest man may in his cottage bid defiance to all the force of the Crown. His cottage may be frail; its roof may shake; the wind may blow through it; the storms may enter, the rain may enter—but the King of England cannot enter. All his forces dare not cross the threshold of the ruined tenement.” – William Pitt, British House of Commons 1763.
Legislation allowing gender-selection abortion and abortion up to birth is to be voted on in the South Australian parliament in coming days.
In her report ‘Worlds Apart’ released this week, Indigenous author Jacinta Nampijinpa Price analysed a wide range of data from locations and communities across Australia. Her report describes the vast difference between Indigenous communities and the rest of Australia when it comes to health and wellbeing, employment, education, crime, and domestic violence.
In its submission to the Federal Parliament’s Inquiry into the Family Law System, the Australian Family Association has recommended that couples who separate should have to wait two years instead of the current one year before filing for divorce (unless there is a history of domestic violence). This was described by News Ltd columnist Tory Shepherd this week as “wanting to drag marriage back into the dark ages”.
What is going on? The SA Liberals seem determined to undermine the rights of faith-based organisations. Last month, Deputy Premier Vickie Chapman proposed removing exemptions which allowed faith-based organisations to run their schools, hospitals and other services in accordance with their beliefs. Now Liberal Treasurer Rob Lucas wants to deny a Christian college its payroll tax exemption.